What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

Confidence- all about attitude- you can do anything you want with the right attitude.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Angelina Jolie – she owns what she does without apologizing

Ellen DeGeneres – proves you can dance and be happy while you work

Betty White – working your strengths is the best advice

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

Lynn: Women can be independent and strong – be a trailblazer not a path follower

Ramona: Never let fear get in the way of opportunity.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

How to start a conversation – in our business we love making our clients feel welcome and invited – often it is simply saying hello to a stranger. You will probably make their day

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Create great partnerships with other small businesses and local charities! We have grown so much largely through word of mouth because of our business connections. And you need to be involved within your community, so that means maybe giving away a product for free so a charity can do a raffle or volunteering. Make sure it is something you’re passionate about because that generosity will come back to you tenfold.

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What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

It starts with passion—but that’s not enough. It’s the willingness to take bold risks to make passion into reality.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Oprah – Her lesson is that all of us have an opportunity to achieve greatness—no matter where we start from. I love the fact that she doesn’t apologize for her wealth. She’s earned it.

Robin Roberts (Good Morning America) – Her willingness to share her personal experience with cancer helped so many people. By making our selves vulnerable and sharing our pain and failures might help others who are in the same boat and feel alone. We never know how we impact others either in our words or as a role model.

Whitney Houston – We learn from others in many ways. I selected Whitney as a reminder for all of us not to discard our God-given talents and gifts.

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

When I was feeling discouraged, my mother would often remind me that others (she would name a friend of mine) have done it—I can too. She gave me encouragement to go for it. When I feel like I can’t do it, I think of my mother’s encouraging words.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

Determination. While others may have given up a long time ago, I have mustered enough gumption to keep going. I guess it’s because I felt that there was no other option for me.

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Utilize and hone into your intuition. I had wanted to become a coach for 10 years, but pushed that feeling aside with excuse after excuse. Once I got laid off, I decided to go for it. That “voice” I heard for 10 years was my intuition trying to speak to me. It seemed that after I took that big step, I began to recognize that voice and while I might be fearful, I follow it and it has become louder and stronger. I believe that “voice” is God speaking to us—leading us to fulfill our life’s purpose.

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

Her ability to be comfortable with herself, confident in her skin, knowing who she in professionally as well as personally and able to build authentic relationships with other women

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Diane Sawyer, Meryl Streep, Julie Andrews and Diane Keaton – all of these women are beautiful inwardly as well as outwardly, they have strong minds and physically take care of themselves – they have a passion for giving to something greater than themselves – really I would rather pick women I know and have relationships with – I could tell you about many of them and EXACTLY what they teach me.

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

You can not change anyone but yourself – and to be confident in who you are as a person not what you do or a title you have

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

Wisdom and tenacity – hopefully I am continually developing both in myself

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Build strong relationships around you to create a support group to encourage you as well as hold you accountable

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

I enjoy being with women who are so confident, that they simply expect positive outcomes to their challenges. They have the capacity, influence, and leverage connections to solve big problems.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Oprah Winfrey – has the gift of articulating her power and the power that is in all of us, unlike anyone I have ever heard. She is connected to her power and she understands that she can do anything with it. She choose to do “good”, and that is how I believe we get to the next level of power and influence that is granted by the all mighty. Angelina Jolie – is who I would consider and example of a humble “Woman Warrior.” The paparazzi captures and tracks her fame, beauty, and money, but her choices to go into the most horrific, dangerous, and poorest places on earth to help the destitute, is her “real truth” and her profound purpose. Harriett Tubman – we all know the story; but when think about the courage of this woman, and her skill-set to build relationships and establish multi- state operations to see her mission through, in those times… is mind blowing. She selflessly risked her life, time and time again to bring her people out of captivity into freedom. How can any woman fear or lack the courage to do anything in the United States of America in 2012 when you read her story?

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

My mother encouraged me to be independent and to be an independent thinker. In that, it has helped me in my role as a wife and mother. I am encouraged and aware of my commitment to my family’s successes and growth. I understand that I have a “place” in my family; and it is to love hard, create safe forward thinking intellectual environments, empower, exhibit excellence, and to create the “standard”.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

I am not afraid to get out of my comfort zone. It is my opinion, that when you are out of your comfort zone, it presents opportunities for growth. Get into circles with individuals who can elevate you to new and higher levels of personal and professional growth. There are things you will see and learn that you many not ever have learned within your own “comfy” circles. I can learn from almost anyone, even a fool; I can learn how not to be one. Remember to be comfortable in who you are, and do not place so much importance in those who are around you that you allow them to make you uncomfortable or nervous. Strangers respect power and confidence, not fear.

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Be a problem solver. When you live a life solving problems you possess the following: The ability to be kind and loving The ability to influence You serve mankind You have empathy for those who lack You are provided with unforeseeable resources You grow to higher levels of purpose and success

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

I find the amazing “WOW” factor in women when they display calm in the face of chaos – be it screaming kids, demanding clients or a crazy busy schedule!

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Hillary Clinton – grace and wits under pressure.

Oprah Winfrey – caring is a platform for success.

Ellen DeGeneres – fairness and acceptance are pillars for stardom.

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

I always admired my mom’s ability to put anyone at ease. She has a way to draw people out, to make them feel important and engage them in lively conversation. To this day I still think of her and what she would do when I find myself in need of social grace and poise.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU Possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

Single-minded persistence!

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Set a course and persist till you arrive at your desired destination. Examine your values and objectives and be true to yourself about the goals that you MUST accomplish to be fully satisfied. Ensure your success by asking from those that have achieved that same goal what you need to do next to move forward. Celebrate each step you take that moves you closer to your ultimate success!

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

Self-confidence. Women who are self-confident are often successful in business and life. Each of us has the ability to adopt new behaviors to effectively reprogram feelings about our abilities and personal worth.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Eleanor Roosevelt, First Lady of the United States, (COURAGE) "We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face… we must do that which we think we cannot."

Rosa Parks, The First Lady of Civil Rights (SELF-WORTH) “Each person must live their life as a model for others.”

Corrie ten Boom, a Militant Heroine, (FAITH) “Faith is like radar that sees through the fog — the reality of things at a distance that the human eye cannot see.”

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

Organization skills. My mom was masterful in managing a household of eight, planting a garden, milking cows, feeding chickens, working on the land, preparing daily delicious home-cooked meals and desserts, plus she still had time for her craft hobbies.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

Positive attitude. If you can always see the glass as half full rather than half empty, choose to see the good in EVERYTHING, you will be happy.

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Never compare yourself to others. You have your own unique gifts and talents to share with the world.

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

The ability to inspire others!

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Wow, I don’t know why I am having such trouble with this one. I don’t really follow celebrities, but in thinking about it I would definitely have to include Oprah Winfrey. She has taught me to listen and learn from others experiences and to listen to good advice. She is inspiring! Wonder Woman was my all time favorite super hero when I was little. I would intently watch her show. She is the epitome of girl power and I love it! Mary Kay Ash. Although, she is not technically a celebrity. She is an entrepreneur, businesswoman and enabled women to go to work for themselves in a time when it is was not that celebrated. I admire people that step out of the box, like she did.

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

When you get knocked down, pick yourself back up. My mom was a single mom, working a full time job and taking me and my three sisters to every activity in the world. She always put us first and I saw strength in her that she probably didn’t even see in herself.

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

I don’t take “no” for an answer. Actually, I don’t even think that world is in my vocabulary. If I want it, I go after it. I make it happen. I use my vision, I create and then take action.

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Do everything with intention and follow through. So many people lack the confidence to try and give up on themselves too easily. Have a vision, make a plan and follow through. Don’t give up on yourself so easily!

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

Knowing who she is as a person – walking it, talking it and looking it. And although you asked for ONE THING, this I think is what matters – How OTHERS respond to her and how she responds to others.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Oprah Winfrey – Speaking up and speaking out with compassion. Hilary Clinton – Daring to be who she is (nothing superficial getting in this woman's way) and getting the job done. Not always considered attractive in our culture. Angelina Jolie – How can anyone be that beautiful and use her talents and resources to CARE how others live in order to create awareness and be treated fairly!

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

My mother, from day one, always reminded me to never judge another for we do not know what their life really looks like and as she said "you have to walk a mile in their shoes to know and understand them".

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

From what I receive in feedback, and which skill set I believe women could emulate is the ability to feel comfortable wherever they are and with whomever they meet.

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Success Tip: Always finding others interesting and building a relationship even if as only an acquaintance – Taking the time to do so. This in itself lives longer than material success in another's eyes.

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

Being able to balance mother hood, being a successful women business owner, and finding time to give back to the community.

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from  - and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

Not really sure about this one

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

To control the controllable and the rest put in God’s hands

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

HARD WORK

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Always do the right thing for the client even when no one is looking

What ONE THING do you think gives a woman the "WOW" factor?

I think “heart” is what gives a woman the wow factor! For years passion and heart was not front and center in business. In fact it was looked down on by men in business as weakness. I believe the reason so many women are succeeding in business now is because they have followed their heart and made NO apologies for doing so! That is what I did and look where it led me!

What three female celebrities do you think we could learn from – and what ONE sentence lesson do they teach us?

I have to start with saying, I don’t tend to look up to celebrities. Unless of course they have shown themselves to be truly admirable, but I don’t find inspiration in “celebrity” alone. My #1 celebrity female inspiration would be Barbara Corcoran! No, not just because she is my business partner but because she truly inspires me to not only succeed in business but to enjoy every step of it! #2 Although she is young, Bethany Hamilton is my #2! She is the true example of a strong woman who pushed past fear and inspired the world! Favorite quote: “I don't really want people looking to me for inspiration. I just want to be a sign along the way that points toward Heaven.” #3 Sara Blakely of Spanks. I love that we started in the same place, at home with a handmade prototype and a big dream! I also like that she has a foundation that supports other women entrepreneurs!

What is the most important lesson you learned from YOUR Mom?

My mom taught me how to persevere! She pushed through 3 major obstacles in her life that would have broken many people. One of which was being abandoned as a infant along with her 10 brothers and sisters. She has showed me that no matter what you face, to keep fighting and living life! My mother decided at 51 years old to go back to college to become a DOCTOR, and she did it! If that’s not inspirational I don’t know what is!

If women could instantly emulate ONE trait, habit or skill set that YOU possess, which trait, habit or skill set should it be?

Optimism! I have always believed that amazing things were going to happen and they did! My favorite quote is: "Life's not about waiting for the storm to pass…It's about learning to dance in the rain!" -Vivian Greene People assume that because my product was on national television that it was an “overnight hit” and that is just simply not the case. I had to fight hard and continue to, in order to succeed in this extremely competitive industry! The key is shaking off the “no’s” and doing a happy dance for every single YES, no matter how small! Although I have always been optimistic, choosing to keep your head up is a choice. So often the fear and pain of cancer get’s me down, but I have to make a decision to be thankful that God has given me another sunrise to enjoy!

What ONE success tip or strategy can you leave us with?

Learn your industry! So often people outsource work too soon in business. I have found this will leave you clueless when that person fails and you are left to pick up the pieces. I was burned one time by this and decided from that day forward to learn ALL aspects of my company, even if it takes more of your time and is much more stressful. One day I will be able to hire someone to do some of the many tasks. The good news is, now I will know if they are doing it right!